Intentionally Manifesting Your Love Life
Quick story about a young lady that was single for 6 years and then decided that she wanted to have a relationship. You see, young lady was spending lots of time as a single mom going on dates after dates, focused on her career, and believing that because of that she’d need to create rules like only going on 3 dates so that she would not get emotionally attached. One day she realized that 6 years had gone by, and the only reason she was single still is because she created that life: Intentionally. She intentionally limited herself. Sure, she had reasons years ago to create the rules, but this way of life became a habit that was literally not allowing her to express love freely. She realized in order for her to have a relationship again, something had to give, because nothing changes if nothing changes! And so she declared that way of living was done. She picked up the phone, and called some family members and a couple of friends and shared with them that she was ready for a loving relationship. She requested that her people be eyes and ears to connect her to the next potential friend that could possibly be a relationship, and within 2 weeks, she was introduced to her now 5 year relationship.What worked? Getting over the past, understanding what God was calling from her in the present, sharing this with her community, and honoring her commitments and values.
Manifesting your love life as a single parent is about reviewing all the commitments in your life, and creating the healthy space to have romantic relationship be available to you. You get to experience changing an old way of experiencing life and discover what else God has in store for you. This means that you become transformed, and your children get to see you have a healthy relationship.
This week there’s a webinar for you to experience where we touch on this. It’s happening February 9th at 8:30 pm. Below is a video to introduce myself and my co-host, Cassendra Caddeau (Founder of Blendedhearts.org).
